i know pronounce you... roommates?

When my husband and I first got together, he was so romantic. There were flowers, poems, cards, notes, candles and every other cliche' thing from a chick flick you can imagine. 6yrs, 1 baby and a chocolate lab later I'm amazed if he remembers to kiss me goodbye in the morning. Why is it that after you get comfortable with each other the romance stops and the bathroom door is left open. Now I'm not that naive I realize he does number 2 but do I want to walk down the hall and hear and see him do it? NO! shut the door! All I'm saying is any marriage will last longer and be more enjoyable if he would put a little more thought into the romance that we used to have. Not that I can't put a little effort in myself but to me having an ice cold beer, a hot dinner and a clean house is pretty romantic to me.